Writing queer erotica

I have given writing queer erotica a try, and the reception has been positive – feedback from others – but I didn’t pursue it. However, I have put together some thoughts and ideas that can be used by writing groups or for those just wanting to explore writing queer erotica for their own development.

Opening discussion

  • Have you read any queer erotica? Do you have any particular recommendations?
  • Do you think multiple genre queer erotica can reach a wider audience and/or help challenge heteronormative and binary assumptions about desire?

Issues faced by queer writers of erotica when seeking publication

Representation: Queer writers often strive for authentic representation of diverse identities and
experiences within their work but traditional publishing environments may have limited understanding or acceptance of various queer identities.

Stereotyping and Fetishisation: Erotica, like any genre, can perpetuate harmful stereotypes or fetishise certain identities. Queer writers may face pressure to conform to these expectations by publishers.

Censorship and Content Restrictions: Queer erotica often tackles explicit or taboo themes, which can result in heightened scrutiny or censorship from publishers, distributors, or platforms.

Intersectionality: Queer writers who belong to multiple marginalised communities might face further challenges due to intersecting identities. Issues of race, disability, class, or gender can impact how their work is received, understood, and valued by publishers and readers alike.

Structuring queer erotica stories – things to consider
What is the central theme or message of the story? Determine the core idea or concept you want to explore e.g. self-discovery, boundaries, desire, empowerment, complex relationships, celebration of diverse sexual identities.
Who are your characters, and what are their backgrounds? Develop well-rounded characters with diverse queer identities, experiences, and backgrounds.
What is the setting and context of the story? Consider how the environment and social context impact the characters’ experiences of queerness and sexuality.
What is the desired emotional arc of the story? Determine the emotional journey you want your characters and readers to embark upon.
How will you build sexual tension and desire? Explore ways to build anticipation and sexual tension e.g.
flirtation, teasing, or power dynamics. Consider pacing, build-up of intensity, and emotional connection.
What conflicts or obstacles will your characters face? Conflict may drive the plot and can create
opportunities for growth and resolution e.g. internal or external conflicts.
How will you address consent and boundaries? Consider how you will explicitly depict discussions of
boundaries, desires, and limits.
How will you handle representation and diversity? Reflect on how you will authentically represent various queer identities, intersectionality, and relationships.
What is the resolution or takeaway of the story? Does it provide closure, a sense of empowerment, or a
thought-provoking reflection? Ensure that the resolution aligns with the themes and messages you intended to convey.
How will you balance erotic content with storytelling? Give equal attention to character development,
emotional depth, and thematic exploration.